1 December 2008, 12:24 am
I have been having problems with a neighbor for about a month now. My wallet was stolen(I made a report) and this neighbor loaned me $15. B/c I no longer have ID(it was in my wallet), she also shelled out $10 to pay for my dog's Rabies shot. Then she bought me and my fiancee a carton and a half worth of cigarrettes to last until payday. Payday rolls around; I gave her back the $25 and bought her 2 cartons of cigarrettes plus about $40 in gas and took her to a nice dinner at a casino resturant. Well, a few days after that, I bought a lease to own PC laptop. I was more preoccupied being on my computer and was avoiding her as well(Because I was weary of her; all she did was gossip about our other neighbors and brag about the charges she slapped on them and other legal difficulties she is putting them through-so I felt uncomfortable being around her b/c of that-I thought she was mean-spirited). Well, about 3 wks ago, me and my fiancee were both over at her place just talking and stuff-nothing seemed wrong. Well, after we got home, I got all these text messages on my phone accusing me of not wanting to be her friend, that I thought she was a piece of sh*t, and no longer needed her b/c of my "stupid computer", etc. This was like 3am! I called and confronted her on it, she said she was "just playing, take a joke". I said fine, but we are sleeping and dont want to be woke up. Then we sparadically spoke to eachother(I was being pleasant but distant) and called my fiancee haggling about me being on the computer all the time. Then one time we were passing an email back and forth about how sick she was feeling-replied back on what remedies to use, etc. Her response was a nasty one; alternating between gossip about others, how we were avoiding her, that the feds were going to seize my computer(b/c i am a swinger and belong to several adult groups-is that a crime?) and that i STILL owed money! Called and asked about it; she said it was an old email(but it was dated on that day!) said not to worry about it. I was more weary of her then and me and my fiancee even came over there and had a seemingly pleasant agreement about her disturbing emails, phone calls, and txt messages. so I thought we were all on good terms. Thanks giving rolls around; we are invited and we have a nice time over there-nothing seemed wrong-nothing was brought up out of the ordinary. So, to cap off thanksgiving; me and my fiancee paid for a $90 hotel room for ourselves. Our night, ya know? Well, at 3 am AGAIN she starts txting me all the way until about 7am about how much I owed her and why and that she was going to contact her atty in the morning. We could have spent this sleepless night for free at home(i did not respond to txts; called her but would not answer but still txted me). The only reason those txt messages stopped at 7 was b/c I had my pcs provider change my number and my fiancee's number. I also blocked her email address. The neighbor then confronted my fiancee about not being able to reach us; he told her that the numbers were changed, and that we wished there would be no more contact between her and us-she told him not to worry about those txts; she was just blowing steam! But she was still told that we should cut ties anyway. That was 2 days ago. Now today(sun) she left a nasty letter on our gate(handwritten with a paralegal's signature on it) demanding she wants her money(apparently i owe her $290 all together! I only borrowed AND paid back the $25 and cigarrettes plus gas! in her letter it says that some of our neighbors plus ppl we dont even know are telling her that we are going to the ghetto and doing crack! That i am falsifying information and using false names(What!?)-we only went to the ghetto a few times to visit friends(drug and drama free friends!). That we are going to jail and that if I dont get her the money by tomorrow(which is today now) that i will also be paying her atty fees and court costs! WTF!!!???? We got so scared that we WALKED about 5 miles to the police station just for them to refuse to look at the letter(plus the one shoved in our mailbox we found on the way to the police station) and say there was nothing we could do, that there was no proof she tresspassed and that it was not a crime to write a letter and leave it somewhere(on our property). We even stated she was told to leave us alone. We walked back, picked up a money order for the amount(We just want to pay her anyway and just get her out of our hair), went to the only open place(the casino) obtained copies of the money order with the same letter i wrote on both copies stating that we no longer need to be in contact at all). So when we got home; I paired up the copy letter(with photo of money order w/ reciept stub) and the money order-i put the original letter w/photo and receipt stub aside for me to keep. Me and my fiancee both went over to her house(b/c she was up and we knew it) armed with a tape recorder incase she would try to incriminate us for... Read More »
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